I teach dating in church.

If that’s what you tell people when you first meet you’re sure to get their attention. Especially if it’s true. My name is Aukelien van Abbema and I teach dating in churches. I’m a licensed counsellor, with a masters degree in Psychology and Christian Philosophy and a postdoctorate degree in clinical psychology. I am from the Netherlands but currently live in the Kent, in the UK, with my husband and two small children. But I was single for most of my adult life and part of my heart still feels the pain of being single for a long time.