Aukelien van Abbema

Aukelien van Abbema

Author and Speaker on Dating, Singleness and the Church, Couples Counsellor

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Learning to dance together: getting serious about getting married

So here’s the thing. In order to date you need to be able to flirt or in some way able to attract the attention of another single person. Not too much, and not too little, but just the right amount

Aukelien van Abbema 1 May 20173 January 2017 Dare to Date Read more

How to go from 0 dates in 4 years to 60 dates in 2 years without losing your mind

‘So how do you find them?’ people ask me all the time when I tell them I had 60 dates in two years time. How do you find all those fine, potential partners? The answer: you don’t. When you look

Aukelien van Abbema 3 April 20173 January 2017 Dare to Date Read more

If you want to go far… team up when dating!

‘If you want to go fast travel alone, if you want to go far, travel together’ the saying goes. Most of us have a tendency to do dating alone. It often surprises me how few people know about a date

Aukelien van Abbema 3 March 20173 January 2017 Dare to Date Read more

Date yourself – is it really necessary to be authentic in dating?

‘Oh, but you just have to know yourself and love yourself, and all the rest flows from there’, a friend told me when I explained the Datingcourse I was developing to her. Just work on your own wellbeing and you

Aukelien van Abbema 3 February 20173 January 2017 Dare to Date Read more

Dating is like jumping in a scary, deep blue ocean… or is it?

Dating can be a tricky world to navigate. A place full of potential landmines that can blow up in your face, a place full of anxiety and fear: the fear of not being enough, the fear of failure, or the

Aukelien van Abbema 19 January 20173 January 2017 Dare to Date Read more

Bookreleaseparty at Threads UK

The 26th of January Threads UK is organising a Dare to Date event! Don’t miss it… Tickets can be ordered here. I hope to see you there!

Aukelien van Abbema 7 January 20173 January 2017 Uncategorized Read more

Almost here: DARE TO DATE!

Happy New Year! I’m superexcited about the fact that this month, January 2017, my book Dare to Date will be published! I hope and pray it will be a blessing to many in their search for a happy, healthy relationship.

Aukelien van Abbema 3 January 20173 January 2017 Dare to Date Read more

Dating – the Basics

  Where to start when you are looking to find love? First of all, decide on whether or not you want to be dating. You probably don’t, because dating is scary and potentially hurtfull, and also a lot of work.

Aukelien van Abbema 7 October 201621 September 2016 Uncategorized Read more

The ´One´ (doesn´t exist)

Everyone is looking for ‘the one’. People are looking for ‘the one’ perfect job, for ‘the one’ perfect house, how to decorate that house perfectly, and for ‘the one’ in special, fantastic friendships. Churches are looking for ‘the one’ perfect

Aukelien van Abbema 7 September 201621 September 2016 Uncategorized Read more

Shopping for a Date Online

Isn’t it funny how you always think you can order clothing or shoes online untill you receive them and remember why you can’t? Because whatever it is, it’s always a bit too narrow or too wide, a bit to grey

Aukelien van Abbema 5 August 201621 September 2016 Uncategorized Read more
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Keller writes that “when you first fall in love, you think you love the person, but you don’t really. You can’t know the person right away. That takes years. You actually love the idea of the person – and that is always, at first, one-dimensional and somewhat mistaken.” (94)

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8 Insights from Tim Keller’s “The Meaning of Marriage”

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I recently finished Tim and Kathy Keller’s book The Meaning of Marriage. While I was reading it I highlighted and took plenty of notes. As an overview I have organized those notes below as “8 Insig…
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Kent singles pay attention! This course is for you if you want to explore Dating and doing single life and beginning relationships well. Happening May 5th, so the time to sign up is NOW! ...

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Working out how to live the Christian life whilst being single? Book into the Dare to Date course for encouragement, inspiration and challenge.
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I'm very proud to announce Dare to Date will be published in Hungarian in less than two weeks time! I will be speaking on a two day event in Budapest. Very much looking forward to it! ...

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